If you’re responsible for coaching investment in, say, a law firm, one important question is, of course: “is this person a good coach?” But there’s another question that matters just as much: “how will this coach be viewed by our most senior, sceptical people – the ones who disengage fastest if they don’t see the coach as credible in their world?”
Senior people in professional services are used to being discerning about expertise. They have spent years building careers in demanding, highly selective environments. They know their own world well and they can be sceptical of people who appear to be offering insights into it without really understanding it. Superficial as it may seem, a few familiar lines on a CV can establish the credibility that provides a first step towards trust.
Credibility facilitates connection. If a coachee feels that the coach “gets it”, through lived experience, it can help build empathy. These qualities – empathy, connection, trust – are critical in coaching. Coachees are more likely to be open when they feel understood. They are more likely to explore the things they don't normally say out loud. And they are more willing to be challenged when they trust that the person challenging them understands the context in which they are operating.
